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Khandro-la at Bus Stop

"In this day and age even though outwardly it seems that in some ways we are in a much degenerated time, please realize that we are nevertheless in a time when many great masters exist. If we have pure vision, these masters are inseparable from the great masters of the past and inseparable from the Buddha himself.

So just open yourself totally without any doubt. If we keep ourselves open, Guru Rinpoche, Tara, all the Bohdisattvas are there, right in front of us, blessing us all the time. So whether we are easterners or westerners, our physical appearance doesn't matter - the blessings are always there. So pursue your practice and be aware!"

- Khandro-la

 

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Nechung Monastery, Dharamsala, India 20th May 2006

Now I am sitting in the Nechung Oracle's monastery listening to the chanting and drums of the annual protection puja. I am recollecting all that has happened since I last wrote to you and feel the need to share some of these varied experiences with you.

   

So many things have happened in these past four months. Teaching in Taiwan was something special for me. It was my first teaching experience in Asia. I was moved by the devotion of the people and their commitment to the lineage. The food was fabulous and like in other countries I felt well cared for by the Drukpa Kagyu centres. I did a lot of sight-seeing, and for such a small country it has a variety of landscapes, (oceans, mountains, cities). My brother Jigme was always with me and he also enjoyed Taiwan.

So within a few short weeks I offered Chod practice, Bodhichitta and Vajrayogini transmission teachings and chanting. Although requested I escaped empowerments on this trip, however in the future, if people's commitments continue, I may offer when the time is ripe. During this trip, I felt encouraged and appreciated that everyone (even men) was open to hearing the teachings from a female practitioner's point of view.

After the teachings my brother and I began to feel tired and a little homesick. So we decided to have some fun and rest for a few days in Singapore with some new friends.

   

I finally arrived back in my home country India just in time for Losar, (Tibetan New Year). It was wonderful to celebrate Losar with my old school friend Dorje, (a pilot for Indian airlines) and his family in Delhi. After catching up, I then headed back to my hometown Manali, situated in the far north of India, in the foothills of the Himalayas. I was welcomed home warmly by my brothers, nephews and nieces and a fresh snowfall. I have always loved watching the snow- capped mountains that surround my home and once again rested in the lap of the gigantic Himalayas.

Over the next month, as well as having a happy family reunion we worked quite hard on the groundwork of the administration of the Khachodling Trust in India. However, soon it came time to hop in a plane with my brother Jampal and his son Tenzin to join together with a small group of my Australian/London friends, for our Kalimpong/West Sikkim pilgrimage.

   

This pilgrimage was a deep personal experience of joy, sadness, rejuvenation, vulnerability and care. This was the first time I returned to Pedong for a happy occasion to celebrate and commemorate the third anniversary since the death of my late husband H.H Shabdrung Rinpoche. There were also many ritual ceremonies held, as well as the annual ritual lama dancing (Tse Chu). After the dancing, a month was dedicated to the unveiling and viewing of my husband's holy body, which is still in a state of Samadhi. I felt very proud to be able to show a glimpse of my world to my Western students and they were very touched to get an insight into my life. I also enjoyed guiding them into the holy sights of Guru Padmasambhava and showing them all of the popular and crazy tourist sites of the region. Jampal- la introduced Jane as Shane Warne's sister at the Himalayan Zoological Park in Darjeeling and Indian tourists gathered around her to take photos while also offering her money.

Everyone in our group had something to offer. Whether it was Jane who did such a beautiful job as group leader, Zaina's healthy yoga, Izzy's Irish dancing, Susy's ability to make people laugh (especially when she danced with the joker during the Tse Chu), Claire's subtle beauty which permeated on an energy level and Betty who held us together with her love. There was also Lena who attended me with much help and care and captured all our moments on film. Everyone helped to keep us together as a wonderful group.

We made many offerings and prayers in various monasteries for the vision of Khachodling, for world peace, for Free Tibet and for the long life of all the great masters. We raised prayer flags and sent blessings in all directions. One of the biggest highlights of our pilgrimage was an amazing visit to the beautiful and sacred Kechopuri Lake and ancient Pemayantse gompa. At the lake we meditated and sent strong prayers for our loved ones. I enjoyed being in such holy places and feeling the wonderful energy there.

This whole pilgrimage was a success and has changed the lives of those who had the opportunity to experience it. Even though at times there were ups and downs, our deep inner experiences led us to become very intimate, not only with each other but with everyone as a whole. In the end this made it difficult to say goodbye. I feel that this is how a true spiritual journey should be and I feel happy to be a bridge between the Eastern and the Western world.

   

After the pilgrimage most of my students returned home, but a few of them stayed with me and came to Manali. Again I hadn't spent much time in my home since my husband's passing so it was in need of some repair and renovation to once again make it my home. I now have a good area to study, to practice and to receive special guests.

After our work on my house was finished I made a short visit to Tso Pema, Bir, Tashi Jong, and Dharamsala, which was in some ways a continuation of our pilgrimage. There I reconnected with many great lamas who are connected to my lineage and family and whom I hadn't met since my marriage to H.H Shabdrung Rinpoche. Some of them were Kamtrul Rinpoche, Choegyal Rinpoche, Dozong Rinpoche, the Nechung State Oracle and the reincarnation of my father Apho Rinpoche. They were so happy to see me and it has been wonderful to feel their support for my teaching and encouragement for me to pursue my vision of Khachodling. Izzy, Jane and Teng also came to Dharamsala and we made some future plans. I feel so happy and grounded in my new stage of life, which feels like my own chapter emerging. My unchanging love and dedication to my lineage and culture finally feels acknowledged and appreciated.

   
In Dharamsala I was invited to stay in the Nechung Monastery and at the same time the 3- week long annual protection puja was being held. I could hear the noises of the horns and the drums from my room and I send all the blessings to you. May your lives be filled with boundless love, compassion and joy. I will soon be returning to Manali where I will do a short retreat. Soon I will be on my way to Ladakh where I will visit the nuns of Khachodling. There are more pilgrimages coming in the near future, so please try to come. Also keep watch as we are also planning more pilgrimages for the coming year.

Farewell, thank you for your support to Khachodling and I will give you more news. Till then, many blessings and goodbye!

- Khandro Thrinlay Chodon

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Khandro-la in Sydney 2005

Byron Bay Australia 1st January 2006

Dear Friends,
Happy New Year! Another year has passed and it has been a long time since you have heard from me. I haven't disappeared but I have been quite busy with the Khachodling project. During 2005 I made a long trip from Sweden to Argentina, and then to America, and on this journey I gave talks and met many friends who are interested in supporting Khachodling.

After returning home to India in June 2005 I did some retreat and I was ready to receive friends from all over the world for a pilgrimage to the far north of the Himalayas - Zanskar. The nuns of Khachodling were eagerly waiting. In our group there were 17 westerners. They were from Sweden, Poland, Iceland and the US. We were helped by my brother Jampal's team, from his Golden Peak Travel Company, who arranged everything very beautifully. Our trip started from Delhi in the scorching heat and we travelled deep into the Himalayan peaks, visiting caves, making prayers, hoisting prayer flags and meeting families. It was a journey full of insight, obstacles, fun, long drives, and camping in remote places! We were welcomed everywhere due to my family connections.

Many of the participants on the pilgrimage had special skills. Some were medical doctors and others were nurses, so they offered their services to people we met on the journey. There were architects and filmmakers who also helped. In this way both eastern and western cultures benefited from each other and I felt proud to perform my duties of bridging east and west.

Two of the nuns from Khachodling came all the way to Leh in Ladakh, to receive us. We headed towards Zanskar in a comfortable tourist coach and camped overnight at different sites along the way. Lama Rigdzin gave some teaching and chanted for us. Before we reached Zanskar, my teacher Stagna Rinpoche arrived in his jeep and there were hundreds of people in traditional costumes waiting on roadsides to welcome us. It was awesome and we camped in Sani and enjoyed the Sani-Naro Festival with lama dancing. Next day we also visited our nuns who are now living on the land we have been granted. We had a nice reunion and many of the westerners offered sponsorship for the practice and education of these devoted nuns. The nuns were very happy and also appreciated the progress we were making with planning future eco-friendly buildings.

This is how our Khachodling mission is really coming alive.

After this journey I did a retreat to ground myself for the coming teaching tour to Australia. I left India on the 21st October 2005 and have been touring different cities in this beautiful country, Australia. I have been on the eastern coast and have visited Brisbane, Byron Bay, Sydney and Melbourne. I have been teaching and again meeting a lot of new friends and supporters of the Khachodling Vision. People have really appreciated my teachings and have invited me to return.

Also, a big thing happened. I met my childhood sponsor, Laurie Seaman, after 27 years! He last visited me in India when I was a teenager and he was an adventurous, strong man. Now he is almost 80 years old and he is so proud to see me having grown into an accomplished woman with a strong compassionate vision. It was a deep and emotional meeting.

Now I am in Byron Bay having a quiet time, enjoying my New Year. We went to the beach and had a quiet candlelight puja wishing all beings peace. I hope everybody is in good health and I wish this year brings everyone joy and insight.

Soon I will be off to Taiwan and then home to India. Now I really desire to have some quiet time for retreat and rejuvenation and look forward to meeting many of you during the latter part of this year when you come for the pilgrimages in Kalimpong, Ladakh and Bhutan. Others of you I look forward to meeting again at my teachings in the future. Be well, be happy and don't forget to smile!

- Khandro-la

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