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Shakya Shri (1853-1919)
My great-grandfather was known as Drubwang
Shakya Shri. He was an amazing yogi who started out
as a cook in a monastery. He was born in a very humble nomadic
family in the Kham region of Tibet, and from there he bloomed
into one of the most amazing yogis of that time. My great-grandfather
was brought up in a Drukpa Kargyud monastery and he did a
lot of practice in that lineage and accomplished the highest
realisation in Mahamudra. Later he met Jamyang Khyentse
Wangpo and from him he received all the Nyingma transmissions
and teachings and mastered dzogpachenpo.
He was very involved in the rimé
(non-sectarian) movement of the time, and in his later
years he became renowned and had students everywhere. People
used to flock to see him from the Himalayan regions of Lahoul,
Ladakh, Pangi, Zanskar, Bhutan and Nepal. This is how our
family first developed its continuing connection to the Himalayan
regions.
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Ladakh Ngawang Pema Chogyal
(1876-1958)
He was one of the heart students of Shakya
Shri, who travelled on foot from Ladakh to receive teachings
from his master. Later in life he became an accomplished master
and taught important lamas of the Drukpa Kargyud lineage.
Among his students were HH the 11 th Drukchen, Thuksey Rinpoche,
Apho Rinpoche, Stagna Rinpoche, Gegen Khyentse, Sengdrak Rinpoche
and many more. Later in life he established many retreat centres
on the border of Nepal and had many students, both monastic
and lay. He collected and compiled the complete set of the
Drukpa Kargyud texts. This is now used in all the Drukpa monasteries.
My brother, Sey Rinpoche, is the incarnation of this Great
Master.
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Lama Sonam Zangpo
(1888-1984)
Lama Sonam Zangpo was a direct student of
Shakya Shri.
After the passing of his master in 1919, he
continued to live on in Kyibuk, Tibet for another ten years
teaching and guiding Shakya Shri's students. Later he went
on to teach extensively in many important monasteries in Bhutan.
However, similar to his Master, Shakya Shri , he was a retreat-like
yogi who principally lived and taught students in jungles
and forests.
Lama Sonam Zangpo looked after my father,
Apho Rinpoche when he was young (10-16 years of age). This
was because my own grandfather had died young. In addition
to caring for my father, Lama Sonam Zangpo taught him Dzogchen
and Mahamudra.
Later in his life Lama Sonam Zangpo extensively
guided Dzongsar Khyentse Rinpoche, Sey Rinpoche and Jampal,
in the teachings of Mahamudra and the Six Yogas of Naropa.
He was the maternal grandfather of Dzongsar Khyentse Rinpoche.
Dzongsar Khyentse Rinpoche and my family are therefore connected
in a deep spiritual way.
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Apho Rinpoche (1922-1974)
My beloved father was a humorous and compassionate
master who touched the hearts and minds of many people in
Tibet, and the Himalayan regions and early western students.
To this day, all his students remember him with much appreciation.
In 1959 he led our family on a most difficult journey out
of Tibet.
Apho Rinpoche was a poet, scholar, healer
and great meditator. He kept alive the practice of the Six
Yogas of Naropa, especially in the Himalayan regions. One
of his major contributions was to establish the renowned hermitages
in Ladakh and Lahoul, including Gotsang and Khespang. He also
collected ancient carved wooden blocks of the songs and biographies
of Milarepa, Gompopa and Rechungpa.
His heart students were Sengdrak Rinpoche,
Gegen Khyentse, Imi-la and the renowned yogis of Ladakh and
Lahoul. He died when I was only 7 years old and I remember
him as a loving father who, in the midst of a very busy life,
made sure to spend as much quality time with us as possible.
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H.E Thugsey Rinpoche (1917-1983)
H.E 's mother, Ashi Bhola, was Togden Shakya
Shri's daughter, and his father was HH the 10 th Drukchen.
Our uncle Thuksey Rinpoche was integral to keeping the lamp
of the Drukpa lineage burning, held the teachings and passed
on the monastic vows.
This he did with great dignity during the
most critical time of Tibetan relocation. He was a great meditator,
poet, chant master and scholar. I remember that he had an
amazing presence and a deep voice. He often held me in his
arms as a child and I was scared of his long white beard.
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Sangyum Urgyen Chodon
(1931-1985)
My mother, Ama-la, was born into an aristocratic
family in South Tibet. From a young age she was very devoted
to the dharma and refused to marry into a life of privilege.
After marrying my father she went into intensive retreat and
practiced diligently for the rest of her life. For me she
truly integrated the depth of her practice into her daily
activities without separating the two. She was the most loving
and compassionate mother. If it were not for her pure vision
and guidance I would not have been able to understand the
real meaning of my life.
She made sure that, even in this female form,
I received the best, both from our own tradition and the modern
educational system in India. With her devotion and love for
the lineage, and her living example of the dharma, she was
my role model and my inspiration. Her compassion and love
for each person who stepped into our house was overwhelming.
She would not let anyone go hungry and she had a great dignity.
She opened my heart and grounded me in my spiritual life.
She is not only my mother, she is also my guru.
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Imi Drupten (1927-present)
Imi-la has been an attendant to my father
since the age of 15. Like Gegen Rinpoche, my guru, Imi-la
has remained with our family during even the most difficult
times. They each served our family with genuine unwavering
devotion. I always remember Gegen, Ama-la and Imi supporting
each other to keep the family and the lineage intact after
the early passing of my father. Imi-la is now the only one
still living and pursuing his service even at an elderly age.
I am always so inspired by his deep and pure love. Even though
he calls himself a servant of our family he is a scholar,
ritual master, astrologer and expert herbalist. He is well
known for his incense making and statue filling. He is like
the backbone of our family and we all love and respect him.
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My brothers Sey Rinpoche, Jampal
and Jigme
My brother, Sey Rinpoche, is the incarnation
of Ladakh Tripon Pema Chogyal, direct student of Togden Shakya
Shri. Sey Rinpoche and my younger brother Jampal were trained
in our lineage since childhood under my father, uncle Thuksey
Rinpoche, Meme Lama Sonam Zangpo from Bhutan and also under
Gegen Khyentse Gyatso. Sey Rinpoche is now married to Norzin-la
from Lahoul and has two sons and one daughter.
He takes care of the spiritual duties
of our family heritage. He travels around the world and teaches
the dharma and takes care of all the monks and nuns of our
lineage. He is known for his phowa, or the teachings on transfer
of consciousness. He has his own students in the Himalayas
and other countries.
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Jampal

Jigme

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My brother Jampal is also said to be an incarnation
of a high Drukpa lama but he chooses to live a simple life
with his Ladakhi wife Phuntsok-la and their two children.
He has a travel business, and is an experienced mountain climber
and trekker. He is known among his clients for his compassionate
and prompt help. He has a guesthouse and also works with medical
care for nuns and lay people in remote areas with his dharma
sister Joyce Murphy, from US, a true Bodhisattava.
My youngest brother, Jigme, is also a natural
practitioner and a supportive brother. He has his own guest-
house and an apple orchard. Jigme has been helping me with
various activities since the passing away of my husband. He
also accompanied me to the West, on my teaching tours. Good
news this year is during my 2007 tour Jigme met Jasmine, a
lovely dharma girl from Malaysia in Australia and soon got
married at our home in Manali. This makes our yogic family
an international family. I am looking forward to becoming
an aunt again in April, 2008.
I have three nephews, Ngawang and Tenzin,
who are teenagers, and Sonam who is only 8 years old. My two
nieces are Chodon, who is fourteen, and Nilza, who is twelve
and soon will have another little dakini added to our family.
I also have two adopted teenage daughters, Sonam and Kezang,
They are my husband's nieces. Their mother died when they
were little and I now enjoy being their mother.
My most enjoyable moments are when I spend
time with all these kids. I am happy to see both Kesang and
Sonam grow up into confident strong girls. They have decided
to have a break from their studies and work for a while. Every
time I am in Delhi I try to spend time with them and guide
them in their life's journey. One thing I have understood
from bringing-up the girls is, as a well-wisher I can only
support and do my best but ultimately each one has their own
karma and no one can change that.
 
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Bhutan Gompa in Manali
This is my base and home in Manali, which I have inherited
from my late husband. It is the only Bhutanese looking house
in the whole of Manali. I have begun to feel at home here
once again - without the physical presence of HH Shabdrung
Rinpoche. It took me long to overcome my grief but now I feel
his presence beyond the physical realm and have once again
engaged in up keeping this wonderful abode.
In this home I have a few monks who do their daily protection
puja, Agu-la, our devoted Bhutanese care taker of the house
and garden, Jane Miknius, my devoted Australian student, and
personal assistant and these days I also have nuns from Zanskar
coming every winter doing their retreat at our home. I feel
so happy to have a wonderful dharma home once again. This
year I planted many new plants and vegetables in our garden
and I can't wait to be home in summer to enjoy them.
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"All this I offer to
my gurus"
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